Most of us have heard those well-meaning comments about “aging gracefully,” especially when referring to celebrities that seem to subdue their natural good looks with increasing cosmetic treatments as they get older. This phrase usually suggests we should simply let nature take its course, and doing anything but that is a terrible mistake.
Of course, there’s a nice sentiment here, and there’s definitely wisdom in accepting the natural changes that come with time. You’re not a lesser or worse person for the treatments you believe are best for you, provided they’re enjoyed in a healthy fashion and not overruled upon.
Neither approach is wrong at all- it’s really about finding what feels right for you and what you’re happy with. The taboo of a quick treatment has thoroughly dissipated over the years, but not quite as far as some would assume. That’s because the beauty industry has changed quite a bit over the years. What used to be spoken of less – like getting a Botox filler touch-up – is now discussed pretty openly over coffee because of how much confidence they can restore to individuals.
As you get older, you might think a treatment could be on the cards, or perhaps you feel that doing so would be to rid yourself of something natural. Well, the truth is you don’t have to be so black and white. Let’s discuss how you might take a more nuanced viewpoint:
What’s Your Comfort Zone?
Everyone has different feelings about beauty treatments of course, and that’s perfectly fine. Some people might drop into their clinic twice a month, while others prefer focusing on good skincare basics and leaving the rest to nature and gravity. The main thing is being honest with yourself about what makes you comfortable.
There’s no right or wrong here – just what works for your lifestyle and values depending on your needs and how you like to present yourself to the world. Many people find their comfort level changes over time, and that’s okay too. Just as getting your first tattoo at sixty is fine, a quick treatment might help you express yourself more.
Find A Routine That Works For Your Needs & Preferences
Believe it or not, treatments don’t have to be super expensive or require hours and hours of care, sometimes the simple adjustments are all you need to succeed. Most people find that consistency with simple, effective products, such as when caring for their skin, works better than jumping between complicated treatments. You might focus on combining tried-and-true basics with occasional professional treatments to get the best results – such as having deeper skin treatment on top of your moisturizing schedule. The nice thing about modern skincare is how customizable it’s become – you can mix approaches based on what your skin needs at different times – be you hoping to deal with an outbreak or to limit wrinkles.
Managing Expectations & Results
You have to be realistic, of course. Beauty treatments can do amazing things, but they’re not magic. Having realistic expectations about results and long-term applications helps avoid disappointment later, or it allows you to wait and see how a treatment comes out instead of going straight for cosmetic surgery.
Some people worry that any intervention will look obvious or unnatural, but skilled practitioners usually aim for subtle improvements that enhance rather than completely change your look, and some even offer sample visits to help you understand more specifically what’s on offer. The goal for most people. isn’t looking 25 forever – it’s feeling confident and refreshed at whatever age they are. That’s a decent place to start from yourself.
Don’t Give In To Social Pressures
Social pressure is all around, in almost all areas of life. If someone can have an opinion on something, they’re liable to hold it, and assume everyone else who doesn’t is incorrect. For that reason, try not to justify yourself if you know your reasons are sound. Your child might not want you to have a certain treatment for instance, but if it’s more of an aesthetic reason than out of health concerns, you might explain thoughtfully why you’d like this treatment and why the practice is something you’re interested in.
On the other side of the coin, don’t assume you have to get something simply because you’re not enough without it. Beauty should always be about enhancing, not supplanting. Keeping that in mind will help you keep a measured view and no doubt feel better no matter what you choose at the end.
With this advice, we hope you can feel a touch more confident about aging gracefully and how beauty treatments work in tandem with that.